Today was a very special day in our family! We got to finalize our adoption process and go before a judge to make Audrey an official part of our family. Now we feel like she's been part of our family for 8 months and a couple of weeks since we were first chosen to be her parents, but more importantly, we know that God ordained her to be ours before time began. So in the grand scheme of things, today was not a big deal. But it felt kind of important and permanent, and it made me breathe a huge sigh of relief to know that the paperwork is done (now we just wait for her birth certificate to show up in the mail) and there is nothing left to do and nothing left to worry about (on the adoption front anyway - worrying is my game, so I'm confident I'll find something new to fret over).
This has been a LONG time in coming. We originally filed the petition in late November after pushing our lawyer for nearly a month to do so (she's not...as efficient as I am...ahem). The courts came back and gave us a court date of February 6, which was a long enough wait in our opinion. But then in mid-December we were mailed a packet of paperwork to complete for the judge, most of which was a redo of our home study (think fingerprints, physicals, social worker visits, etc). Because the FBI fingerprints didn't come in on time (and because our lawyer didn't turn in all the correct paperwork - ahem again), the date was postponed. Then after pushing to find out what the new date was for over a month, the judge decided he didn't like the copy of our marriage certificate we had turned in. So I took a different copy to be refiled and waited another four weeks! Finally, just over a week ago, the lawyer contacted the courts and they gave us today's date, April 9, as our court date. To say I was excited is an understatement, as is saying I wasn't nervous that something else would come up to postpone it yet again.
Our court appointment was at 10am, but the judge was hearing a criminal case which didn't get over until nearly 11. This made for quite a fun wait with an 8 month old who really, REALLY wanted to be on the floor playing. But she did very well and didn't fuss much at all. Finally we were called back to the Judge's chambers, and he was in a very grumpy mood. He barely said a word. Our lawyer had us sworn in and asked us questions like what our names are and if all the information in the petition was true. It took literally 2 minutes. The judge glanced at the paperwork, grunted, and signed his name. Our lawyer said she would have asked to have our picture taken with him if he'd been in a better mood. Oh well! We got this one just inside the courthouse. We picked up our official adoption decree that we will put in a safe deposit box and headed home.

Audrey took a GREAT nap and then decided that today wasn't exciting enough and that she would go ahead and just pull herself to a standing position today for the first time. No pictures yet, but I'm sure I'll get some soon since that's all she wants to do now.
We went out to dinner to celebrate, and Nick was gracious to share his quesadilla with her. Yumm!!!
We got a cute little mini cake to celebrate, complete with three roses on top, one for each of us. I know, gag, right?
And then Nick let her put her fingers in it. Ick!
Such a joyful day for our family, and while it doesn't change a thing in our books, it certainly means we can continue life as a happy family of three and enjoy our little Audrey Katharine.