Alternate title: A Story of How Girl Arranges to Meet Boy :)
Today is the 10th anniversary of our first date. Not as momentous as our wedding anniversary, of course, but 10 years is a milestone and I know the date because I kept a journal at the time. So for fun, here is the story of how we met:
We were at the same college, living in the same dorm only two floors apart. Being at a tiny college, I had seen him around before, but had never had the opportunity to meet him - he was a year ahead of me and was constantly in the gym playing basketball - not a social butterfly, my husband.
His roommate began dating one of my friends (Meg, who reads this blog and to whom I give all the credit) and they decided that Nick and I would make a good pair. So after talking with me, they arranged a group date in which everyone going knew the purpose was to pair up Nick and me. So it was a bit awkward since we were being watched, but we hit it off immediately (this is not what I count as our first date, by the way).
That night after putt-putting and ice cream we all went to the local golf course where Nick worked and sat out under the stars. Nick and I were a way's away from everyone else and we talked for hours. Nonstop (which is quite the feat knowing what I know about him now - I'M the talker in the relationship!).
The next few days were finals and we were both busy with those, but we still managed to see each other and say hi. About a week after the group date, Nick called me and asked me out. I said yes and we went to Applebee's for dessert on Sunday, April 30, 2000. My roommates threw jellybeans out the window at us as we walked to the car, and Nick and I were both too nervous to even acknowledge it! I was a wreck with nerves. But I remember that he opened my car door (and still does to this day) and that made an impression. There was no looking back - a week later we were both home from college for the summer (he lived two hours away) but he drove down every weekend to see me and two years and a month later, we were married.
So all in all, a successful first date!